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19. July 2005 @ 19:39 |
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my gf is one month pregnant how do i help her get an abortion we can't support the baby we're both in college. help help plus we're in Connecticut.
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19. July 2005 @ 20:08 |
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this is serious piz no pranks or jokes.
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19. July 2005 @ 22:35 |
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the first thing you can do is to LEARN YOUR LESSON from this, and have safe, or safer sex...the pill is worth it, beleive me.
You can always get a fake canadian ID and go up there and take advantage of their free health care (at least thats what someone told me they did once)
Personally I would live with the consequences and deal with it...you can always give it up for adoption.
BTW your sig is pretty ironic if you think about it...life is beautiful, yet you want to destroy a life due to your mistake?
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20. July 2005 @ 08:00 |
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thanks i will research that canadian things.
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20. July 2005 @ 10:12 |
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ok bub i was in a very simiular situation with me and my high school girlfriend, straight out of high school we got pregnent i say we because well she just didnt fall onto my penis lol but anyways i waas so freaked out and for us abortion was never a choice but we stuck through it and i went onto college and so did she near the end of her first year she had my daughter of course i dont know your situation but in mine her parents would watch her while she was at school and work and i got to go to school also although my school was a three hour drive away so i only got to see my kid on weekends which was tough but hey now she starts kindergarten next year and i dont think i would of had it any other way the little buggers kind of grow on you and if u decide to raise this kid u will ask yourself down th road how the hell did i ever think of giving this up
long story short me and my wife now both have bachelors degrees and although its not to easy its more than worth it
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20. July 2005 @ 10:26 |
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man i really admire u gf going through those hard times and still graduate with bachelor degree lucky she had a nice parent but i'm kind of a player guy so i can't just get stuck with one girl. anyway talking about abortion it freak me out i'm so scare now. we didn't even tell our parents about it yet。
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20. July 2005 @ 10:44 |
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??? Let me answer your problem with a cliché ??? You play, you gotta pay ???
??? Abortion is immoral and should be illegal ???
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20. July 2005 @ 10:53 |
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Quote: i'm kind of a player guy so i can't just get stuck with one girl
Im having trouble finding words to respond to that statement.
Welcome to the game.. playa
next time wrap up that tiny little thing of yours.
That child would be better off without a father like you.
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20. July 2005 @ 10:58 |
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Ive seen some stupid threads started in safety valve, but this one has to win the prize.
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20. July 2005 @ 11:03 |
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??? I'm with you on that one, jim_dandy ??? Keep on puffing ???
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20. July 2005 @ 11:06 |
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Quote: player guy so i can't just get stuck with one girl.
I am sorry for your poor girlfriend, with this attitude she is probably better off without you. You say you are in College then you must be sleeping through your classes, because you should have had brains enough not to get into this situation, and brains enough to know how to get out of it. Thre are enough planned parentohood clinics out there that will help you.
Quote: Ive seen some stupid threads started in safety valve, but this one has to win the prize
I totally agree.
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20. July 2005 @ 17:14 |
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god geez i ned advices not critcisms.
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20. July 2005 @ 17:22 |
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You knock a girl up,and say, I can't be bothered cuz im a playa.
Then you bitch about being criticized??....my god how old are you??
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20. July 2005 @ 17:33 |
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i do care about her but u know i can't just be stuck with her my life still have to go on. graduate from college, get a job, and marry etc...
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20. July 2005 @ 17:50 |
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Quote: You knock a girl up,and say, I can't be bothered cuz im a playa.
Then you bitch about being criticized??....my god how old are you??
Well said Jim.
I believe people should have choices but I also believe people should live with the consequences of their actions. If you're gonna do something I'd say adoption. Abortion is morally WRONG.
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20. July 2005 @ 17:52 |
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nvm i think u guys are right, i should just father the child.
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20. July 2005 @ 17:54 |
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next time i will be sure to bring rubbers everywhere i go.
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20. July 2005 @ 17:58 |
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Too bad your daddy didnt.
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20. July 2005 @ 18:00 |
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LOL
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20. July 2005 @ 18:00 |
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Jimdaddy now that's some fxxk shit man.
i'm not the only playa around ok i'm sure there are tons of them out there.
are you espically against players or what?
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20. July 2005 @ 18:08 |
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I could go on a rant, about how irresponsible people like you cost us honest taxpayers millions of dollars a year,but I wont.
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20. July 2005 @ 18:11 |
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damn it my family pay for every penny of my health care so don't even talk about tax and bulls. also Since i lived in Fairfield county, CT i mean we're like the richest counties in the USA so i'm pretty much sure we pay more tax than most of ur people.
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20. July 2005 @ 18:11 |
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??? Go get 'em jim_dandy, rant away ??? And yes, I'm a playa hater, live with it playa, or grow up ! ???
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20. July 2005 @ 18:12 |
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Rich people dont pay taxes...how old did you say you were???
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20. July 2005 @ 18:16 |
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damn it i'm 19 ok.
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