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britenite
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_ 		23. February 2008 @ 20:46 _ Link to this message    Send private message to this user   
so im starting to thing that my girlfriend is losing interest in me. but i want some opinions. we have basically been living together for quite a few months now and just recently her best friend got kicked out of her house and is living with us now. my girlfriend seems to be happier to see her friend when she gets home than she is to see me. when i talked to her about it she denied it. she doesnt answer her phone for me that much anymore and she usually has some excuse as to why. the other day both her friend and i were home and her friend called her and she answered, when i caller her like maybe and hour or two before she didnt answer and when i called five minutes after her friend called she didnt answer then either, but she called me back and said her phone was across the room and called me back shortly after.


what do you people think is going on??
any advice??
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pwhite23
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_ 		23. February 2008 @ 23:12 _ Link to this message    Send private message to this user   
dude that sucks. maybe suprise her with a nice meal. Or give her flowers and chocaletes. Shes probably bored with you because everyday is probabley the same. If you do things for her once and a while then she will probably answer her phone more :)
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club42
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_ 		24. February 2008 @ 11:15 _ Link to this message    Send private message to this user   
I agree with pwhite23, take her out to do something different, hiking, road trip to some ware cool, ect. Even tell her that her friend is invited so that you don't seem jealous. Also never seem too needy or clingy with a girl. Stop even asking why she didn't answer your calls, it just makes you seem insecure. If she blows you off then blow her off and do something fun. Maybe follow her lead and start hanging out with your friends more. If all else fails then move out and look for another girl. It sucks but you will eventually meet someone who will treat you better. Confidence and self respect goes a long way with women. Good luck.
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Auslander
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_ 		24. February 2008 @ 12:04 _ Link to this message    Send private message to this user   
This sounds exactly like what happens when a boyfriend pulls the clingy/needy card, as club42 said. If you do something to try to get back in her good graces, don't bring her friend along; before long, she'll start to equate you with friends and the relationship will be over.

It sounds like after living with you and having a day-to-day routine, she's bored. And if she's acting like you say she is, I guarantee she's already thinking about other people.

Pull back for a bit, act like it doesn't bother you. Then catch her with some kind of surprise day of awesomeness. Steal her when she's home alone or something and don't tell her where you're going, just keep a big smile.

And we already have a dating thread
http://forums.afterdawn.com/thread_view.cfm/6/569937

I'm going to request this be closed.
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binkie7
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_ 		24. February 2008 @ 13:12 _ Link to this message    Send private message to this user   
Let's stick w/ 1 dating/love life thread.
Use the one in Auslander's post.
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