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11. July 2008 @ 14:02 |
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Originally posted by ddp:
supposedly on my father's mother's side but doubt it.
Well, either your irish or native american indian part is probably where you got your creative side from! ;)
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ddp
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11. July 2008 @ 14:27 |
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from neither but from my cp(cerebal palsey) which i was born with. had a mild stroke as a fetus.
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11. July 2008 @ 15:14 |
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You're an architect aren't you? That must be great, to imagine something and then to see it take shape in front of your eyes! :)
Maybe some of it's your cp and some of it's your ancient celtic ancestry (come on, give us irish some credit here lol!).
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11. July 2008 @ 17:09 |
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wow ddp sounds like he has more parts to him than my mothers wedding cake!
Ayame, i live for you xxx even though the sight may fade the feelings shall always remain
Ayame, i owe you my life but thats all i have to give to you as you already have my love and my heart
forever yours Joe xxxxx
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ddp
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11. July 2008 @ 18:06 |
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i'm not an architect, i'm just a self employed computer techie who is good with his hands with a disability.
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12. July 2008 @ 02:58 |
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Sorry, i could have sworn u said u were an architect in a different thread. :(
Another computer techie then - AD seems to be full of them. I know where to go for advice next time i have a problem so! ;)
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12. July 2008 @ 06:12 |
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ddp may i ask what you suffer from. im kind of in the same boat. techie with a disability, i suffer from Dyspraxia, extremely unstable hands and wrists random pains as well
sorry just had tp state it
Ayame, i live for you xxx even though the sight may fade the feelings shall always remain
Ayame, i owe you my life but thats all i have to give to you as you already have my love and my heart
forever yours Joe xxxxx
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12. July 2008 @ 06:29 |
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Munkyears, your siggie is so beautiful, Thank You
"The flimsier the product,the higher the price"
Ferengi 82nd rule of aqusition
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ddp
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12. July 2008 @ 18:33 |
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cp(cerebal palsey), damage to the locomotive functions of the brain which afected both legs, left arm & my speech til i was older. had 2 operations on my legs when i was 4 & 10yrs old. i'm not as flexible as i use to be so i'm figuring age is at play.
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haskins69
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12. July 2008 @ 21:14 |
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I think I have the record for this post 12/24/2000 I got real screwed up drunk + other thing's, and took a drive [I remeber none of this to this day ] and I hit a telephone pole, cops came tok me to hospital then jail, where I fell out again, so they took me to hospital again [O.D.'s Are strange] at that time cop's no longer wanted to be responcable for my ass , so they released me to family, I woke up the next day [ christmas ] and was told what I told you folk's, any wayI spent next year laying around healing [I found out a month after wreck, that I broke my neck in the crash hair line fracture ] so at the end of that year I had to go to treatment or jail ,I chose treatmentof coures.when I got out of treatment I moved back in with mom and dad[ I'm 46 for christ sake ]and signed up for disablity,I sat around for 4 years doing nothing till I was finaly denied, so what have I done since? same I did those 4 years played on the computer, nothing else.......I take that back last year I did take some on line classes 4 of them[ same as playing ] other than that I've done nothing but play on my computer , So I've done nothing since 2000, 8 years can any one beat that????????????//
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12. July 2008 @ 23:16 |
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haskins69 is life really all that bad???? 8 years free food free board???
heck you could domesticate me like that Burty quick/////lol
get of yer arse LOL jk
-tripplite
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haskins69
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13. July 2008 @ 01:56 |
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I didn't know this was about good or bad ,I thought it was about who's done the least longest, and in that area I feel I have a chance as the leader !
And as far as this arrangement I find my self in. you try joining the service at 17 to get away from home, then getting out ,getting married then divorced,keeping your daughter,raising her by your self ,then finding your self right back where you ran from almost 30 years before!!!!!!! it's no cake walk!! if you didn't like the rules then, how do you think you'd feel about them afer 30 years on your own, with your own rules?????? especialy with parent's that feel they were to easy on you then, so they are trying to crack the whip now for no other reason, than to amuse them selves
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haskins69
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13. July 2008 @ 02:39 |
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OH......I forgot on the good side I haven't drank since the wreck and the only drug's I now do are from Doctor or the occasional DOOBIE here and there ,and I have been looking for work but my town only has 1 food store 2 gas station's a pharmacy[they'll nefer hire me ....wounder why??] and 9 bars , it's a town of 3900 people. and next up the road [5 miles ] is a town of 30,000 but first I have no way there , and secound there's no job's we got a Lowe's and wal-mart about 5 years ago they are both closing now [when wale world pull's out you know there's no money left here, or they'd stay to suck up the last of it!!!!!] and the maror only offer's deal's to the state for more welfare and section 8 housing money for the people they are shipping down from CHICAGO. AND THOSE JACK-OFF'S have done nothing but bring more drug's ,bum's ,and death down with them this use to be a good area we use to have G.M. , G.E.,Hyster, and quaker oat's factory's and 2 malls, now we only have one mall with a SEARS,and a hand full of other stores. all the factorys have left . and I have no way around to towns further out [ remember D.U.I. no can drive] but I am looking I'll find something The first few week's will be rough though till I have enough money to more closer to the job.............later
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13. July 2008 @ 03:07 |
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Originally posted by ddp:
cp(cerebal palsey), damage to the locomotive functions of the brain which afected both legs, left arm & my speech til i was older. had 2 operations on my legs when i was 4 & 10yrs old. i'm not as flexible as i use to be so i'm figuring age is at play.
You say you're good with your hands, does that mean you have a milder form of cp?
Everyone loses flexibility as they get older, stretching, exercise and sports massage is the way to go!
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13. July 2008 @ 10:30 |
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But that involves getting a life and interacting with people in the real world.... Ooooo scary :lol:
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ddp
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13. July 2008 @ 17:00 |
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eva, yes it is mild case of cp. besides computers i also do model warships from 8" in length to currently 54" long(hms warspite, a battleship). i've also done some renovations on homes besides ours but mostly for friends.
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13. July 2008 @ 20:00 |
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@haskins69
How 8 years down the road so to speak, you can't get a driver's license? How many DUIs have you had? Sure are strict where you live.
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14. July 2008 @ 04:32 |
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haskins69
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14. July 2008 @ 12:42 |
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I've had 3 D.U.I.'s all seperated by 10 years. you know D.U.I. 10 years, D.U.I. 10 years, D.U.I. 10 years. Kinda showes a pattern to state officals. making It hard to get my tag's back ,I can't even apply this time till 2011!!!!! boy this post is getting depressing makes me think to much about life, and the road I've taken to get this far. Oh by the way I'm also BI-POLAR, which has no bearing on the subject ,but might show that some of this was beyond my control, I didn't start taking medicine for It till this last D.U.I. , kinda odd but that's when I quit drinking,and I really don't know if it was the meds I now take or the fact I almost killed myself that stopped my drinking, either way that part of my life Is over now to convince the state
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14. July 2008 @ 13:15 |
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I have no 'real' life. I realized that today. I am still in highschool, well, theoretically I should have graduated already, but I haven't, as I spent my whole senior year blazed. But I want to finish, so I am going back, luckily they agreed to let me.
I went to court on Friday for a possesion and aggravated assault charge. The possesion is not on my record, the prosecuter (City Of Appleton) dissmissed it in exchange for community service. But the aggravated assault was not so lucky, I mean it was a school fight, but I don't understand why somone would press charges.
In any case, it is summer, so I work as much as I can at McDonalds (yes, McDonalds). And when I am not working, I am hanging out with my girl.
My epiphany, in this case, came when she left town for this weekend. To go to 'Old World Wisconsin', as her father was re-enacting there, (lol, yes re-inacting), I opted out, but, its now monday, and I realized, that because she was out of town, I sat and felt sorry for myself for two days straight... yes, I have no life.
Today, I smoked what was left of my Red 100's, felt sorry for myself, and kinda waited by the phone. Thats my life, welcome!
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14. July 2008 @ 13:49 |
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Hey there Nicht.. We were starting to think you had got a life at last... seems we were wrong eh?
Good to see you ;)
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14. July 2008 @ 14:28 |
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@Nicht
You're still way too young, man. YOU can change your life for the better! And you are SMART enough to know what you need to do. Go back and get your HS diploma and start anew. You might need to find new friends too. We all have made stupid mistakes. Stop feeling sorry about yourself, and do some things that you can be proud of. Having a job now is one! None of this will be easy. I fear your generation is in the same boat. Get the cob webs out of your head and get on with your life. Good to see you posting again.
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15. July 2008 @ 08:27 |
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Originally posted by NicHt:
I have no 'real' life. I realized that today. I am still in highschool, well, theoretically I should have graduated already, but I haven't, as I spent my whole senior year blazed. But I want to finish, so I am going back, luckily they agreed to let me.
I went to court on Friday for a possesion and aggravated assault charge. The possesion is not on my record, the prosecuter (City Of Appleton) dissmissed it in exchange for community service. But the aggravated assault was not so lucky, I mean it was a school fight, but I don't understand why somone would press charges.
In any case, it is summer, so I work as much as I can at McDonalds (yes, McDonalds). And when I am not working, I am hanging out with my girl.
My epiphany, in this case, came when she left town for this weekend. To go to 'Old World Wisconsin', as her father was re-enacting there, (lol, yes re-inacting), I opted out, but, its now monday, and I realized, that because she was out of town, I sat and felt sorry for myself for two days straight... yes, I have no life.
Today, I smoked what was left of my Red 100's, felt sorry for myself, and kinda waited by the phone. Thats my life, welcome!
Things are getting back into line for you, but you're going to be a dad soon, aren't you? Put it into a higher gear, son, you don't have time to feel sorry for yourself. You need to give up all the substances, legal and illegal, altogether. They're a waste that I doubt you're in a situation to afford.
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15. July 2008 @ 12:02 |
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@iluvendo aw thank you, i am glad you liked it. you are the first to notice and comment actually.
Ayame, i live for you xxx even though the sight may fade the feelings shall always remain
Ayame, i owe you my life but thats all i have to give to you as you already have my love and my heart
forever yours Joe xxxxx
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15. July 2008 @ 20:02 |
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Things are getting back into line for you, but you're going to be a dad soon, aren't you? Put it into a higher gear, son, you don't have time to feel sorry for yourself. You need to give up all the substances, legal and illegal, altogether. They're a waste that I doubt you're in a situation to afford.
Yeah, I am getting my ass into gear; my ex, had a miscarriage. And subsequently became my ex, as nothing could fix the sadness when we looked at each other, we were too young, but we were looking forward to it, I don't know how we would have survived, or bought food, or anything, but I had accepted it, and was happy.
But even still, I found someone else, it isn't shallow-ness on my part, it is a desperate and immobilizing fear of being alone. A crippling need to be with someone. It isn't the same, but I am happy with her, us.
I am trying hard to become clean, and am having limited success, but success none the less.
Thanks for the support Brandon, as always.
~nicht
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