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rdmercer1

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24. April 2008 @ 03:10

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well things must of not gotten that bad because you still have your internet, when thing get so bad that you can not aford food but you have the internet, do you have satalite tv? and as far as bankruptcy, that would be a no brainer! and for the gambling and the credit cards, all of the things that were done with that, it is all unsecured debit, so there is nothing they can take, also do you have a door on your room? if so spend $5.00 dollars on a lock and put it on, that way the cat's won't be pissing on your stuff, that was easy! so did you quit the apprentice at $9.00 an hour for 6 hours a day, 5 days a week? to take this job? Got a temp job at McCain(food processing plant) making $12/hr. Doing 20 hour weeks? and as far as a dirty house it is only as dirty as you want to live in it, everyone needs to do the job of cleaning not just one, like you say your mom works right? so why should after working all day thain come home and have to fix dinner for everyone, sounds like everyone is wanting one person to do all the work! it takes a family to work togeather to have a happy family, dose your dad know how to cook? do you know how to cook? if not you should learn, what will you do when you move out when you get out of school? i am sorry if it seems like i am comming down on you a little bit but that is life, and if anyone told you that life was easy they lied!!, i have raised two girls by myself, as a single parent working long hours, and it has not been easy, but i keep a clean house and we have two dogs two cats, the girls had stuff that they had to do, and they know how to cook because i taught them how, it is life skills, and now they are out of school and have there own places one has gotten maried and i have a grand child, my oldest is 29yrs old and the youngest daughter is 26 not married but is dating this guy for quite some time like three years, and they are talking about geting married sometime in the neer future. and they both have good paying jobs! as far as your dad,sounds like he is messed up good as far as body wise, and as far as dad plans to divorce my mom, sounds like he is not ready to let go yet! and i understand the love thing, the most common reason people get divorced is money, and screwing arround by one or the other, and you say your family has filed bankruptcy two times and you can only file once every seven years and you are still in school, and you most likley would not knowen about that when you were like five, so what you can learn about all of this is not to make the mistake that were made there. also do you have any family that can help you out? i meen i guess you and your dad could go live with your grandpa untill the big payout comes in! there is always a way out of your mess, but it is like this you have to be sick and tired of being sick and tired and when you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, you might do something about it! but it sounds like everyone has not gotten sick and tired enough! hope this helps good luck you are going to need it, also just wondering how many more years you got left of school?


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